Immigration and family relations. What consequences?
Family relations in immigration. How does immigration affect relations in the family, what could be the consequences of moving to another country.
Hello, dear friends!
I'm asked the question: what is the fate of the marriages of those people who come here. That is, a person is interested in how much the relations of people during immigration change or do not change.
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I think that you need to start from afar. With such a banal philosophical thought that relationships, they all have a different basis. This time. And secondly, people who are in a relationship also have different priorities and goals in their lives. If people come to immigration, as a rule, in most cases, it is still a deliberate decision of all family members: husband and wife. Accordingly, it can be assumed that both husband and wife before immigration thought well of what difficulties, what troubles await them in immigration. And, accordingly, having answered for themselves the question of whether or not they will be able to endure this, they decide to immigrate or not to immigrate. I know that a very large number of families break up already at the moment of preparing documents for immigration, because, as a rule, wives have thoughts that "Here, I can not leave here, I can not leave my girlfriends. We have worked so much here, so much has been done. Who will we be in the new place? "And so on.
In fact, men also suffer from this. But according to my observations, the ratio of men and women who are the initiators of divorce before the family immigrates, yet the initiators are more women, because they do not want to leave anywhere.
And the situation is quite the opposite, when we are talking about families who have already immigrated. As a rule, women adapt more quickly to immigration. As a rule, women learn the language faster. As a rule, women quickly find their place in the new society. And having begun to live a full life, working, having friends, friends, they see that their husbands continue to remain in a state of prostration, they look for themselves and learn the language. And slowly begin to gnaw them, reproach them, say: "Oh, you are so, so, you do nothing. I'm pulling a house on me "and so on.
And in immigration, as a rule, again, according to my observations, in a greater degree, the initiators of divorce are no longer men, but rather women. But, again, there is another point.
Men very often in order to ensure the survival of their family, immediately after the beginning of the first steps of immigration in the country, they begin to work on the so-called suraul job, work low-wage, low-skilled and so on. Some immigrants work there, local people do not usually work there. As a result, they do not grow professionally, they degrade to some extent, they do not teach the language. Women at this time either engage in children, or in parallel are still engaged in education and study. Accordingly, after several years, the man remains at the same stage of development, on which he was on arrival, and the woman develops. And it turns out that a woman wants to have something better, something more adequate to the one she currently has. And her husband already does not meet these requirements. Therefore, a woman, especially without hesitation, especially not philosophizing, just proposes a divorce. People diverge, and the woman creates new families, or with those men who rose to their feet after immigration, or connect their fate with the local.
In general, if we talk about the percentage, then, according to my observations, somewhere in the order, probably 30 percent of families who come here are getting divorced. They do not stand the test of difficulties, they discover for themselves that, nevertheless, next to them are not the people they were interested in, in which they fell in love while living in Russia. And plus very often, very often there are relationships between immigrants. That is, couples are changing partners, at some point people support each other, get closer, communicate. In the end, it turns out that the wife goes to someone else's husband, and the husband goes to someone else's wife.
In general, somehow this is the situation with the issue of the existence of marriage in Canada with immigration. If you have questions, ask, I will be happy to answer. All the best, goodbye!
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& mdash; Use the program for skilled workers. To do this, you must meet several requirements: it is good to know English or French, to have higher education, work experience in your specialty, etc.
& mdash; Move through the provincial program, for example, Alberta, British Columbia, Manitoba or Quebec.
& mdash; Enroll in a Canadian college or language course. You will master a new profession, get local experience and this will help in the future to obtain a Canadian passport.
& mdash; If you do not know how to file documents and want to be sure of the result, contact immigration lawyers. They will help you to immigrate to Canada quickly and in the most beneficial way for you.
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